The 3 reasons for communication breakdown: aggression, repression and denial….
What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility.
In Psychology Today’s July/August issue, an article called, Advance Warning, discusses why sometimes even couples who seem happy often still end up getting a divorce. Author, Mary Diduch, says UCLA researchers tracked couples for 10 years and found certain patterns that lead to divorce were present from the beginning. Negative characteristics such as: aggression, anger and contempt can sometimes outweigh the the positives: commitment, lack of stress or strengths in personality.
Diduch notes that in the beginning of a marriage, the good times are still outweighing the bad, until eventually, communication breaks down. Three main reason for this: aggression, repression and denial.
Aggression in seemly healthy couples may just boil down to the lack of controlling our tempers. (The article points to husbands, but I…
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